Why I Love Thanksgiving To me thats not what Thanksgiving is about. Thanksgiving is about offering up your thanks for what you have achieved over the year. Its about a day where you can just drop all the bullshit and spend time with those you love and be thankful to be alive. I almost died last year on Nov 15, when I got out of the hopsital it was a few days before Thanksgiving (as a matter of fact I wasnt allowed to get out of bed until Thanksgiving day and I wasnt allowed to leave my house until 2 weeks later). On that Thanksgiving I gave thanks to the fact that I was still alive and able to sit down eat a Turkey dinner and watch a football game. I guarantee you that those who sit down and eat Thanksgiving arent giving thanks for slaughtering Native Americans all those years ago or even for stealing my families land hundreds of years ago, they are giving thanks to the fact that everyone in their family is healthy and that we can all come together and eat a nice turkey dinner and take peaceful naps even after all this country has been through. My best friend is a first generation Korean American, (meaning her parent emigrated here from Korea) she sits down with her family on Thanksgiving and celebrates the fact that they were able to move from Korea to the US and successfully start a business. My other grandparents are from Germany and Austria and they celebrate the fact they were able to survive life in Germany during the War, when their chances of survival were slim to none. Thanksgiving has evolved from being a pilgram holiday. It has a different meaning to everyone and mine isnt as superficial as a paper pilgram hat and broomstick musket. Its a spiritual holiday to me. Maybe because my family prays before dinner, maybe because I almost kicked the bucket this time last year. You can call me a race traitor or an ignorant American but next year I will consider myself blessed if I can sit at a table filled with my family and friends on the next to last Thursday of November. It may sound selfish and silly to everyone else but that is why I celebrate Thanksgiving. previous : next
- - 25 February, 2006
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